Tips for Attracting Men

unacceptable to chew gum, look around, or fold your arms across your chest

– it makes you seem antisocial and uninterested. Hold your body

upright, relax your shoulders, put your legs a bit apart, and turn your

toes slightly inward. Smile and show that you enjoy being here.

It’s wrong to be motionless. You should constantly move to enhance

the beauty of your seductive body. If you have a good bust, raise one

or both hands to fix your hair. If your legs are your strength, you can

drop something (a handkerchief, for instance) and then gracefully pick

it up. A woman’s hair is a very powerful weapon, so from time to

time touch it or pull it back behind your shoulders. These sexual signals

are definitely going to reach the man.

If you are sitting, hold your body upright and arch your back a bit.

Cross your legs at your thighs because it helps men to see your shapely

legs.

Always smile. Your smile shows that you are friendly

and open for communication. Your smile sets a man at ease.

A visual contact matters more than a lot in flirting.

Eyes are the mirror to the soul. When you make eye contact with a man,

and it lasts for some time (a minute or so), it signals that you are interested

and open. Of course, it’s inappropriate to wink or stare at a man

for too long, as it can be misinterpreted. Here are some ways to attract

a man through visual contact (don’t use the same trick with the

same man more than once):

• Look into his eyes a bit longer than you usually do and smile a little.
• Look at him over your shoulder and smile.
• Take a quick look at him from head to foot and smile.
• Look straight into his eyes, count to three and keep looking into

  his eyes. Then start turning your head to the side, and on “four”

  take your eyes off him.

• Focus on the man who’s not looking at you. As soon as he notices

  that you are looking at him, give him a little smile, then turn away

  and lower your eyes as if you are embarrassed at this flash of affection.

It’s believed that the man should initiate action, but if this

doesn’t happen don’t hesitate to start a conversation. According

to surveys, 95% of the men polled like when women initiate contact. Of

course, you shouldn’t be too pushy and after a couple of phrases

you should leave him alone for some time. To begin a conversation, you

can tell a joke or pay him a compliment (something about his good looks

or cool outfit). It’s OK to ask trivial questions or to ask for

advice, such as how to get to some place or what to buy for your brother.

It’s perfect to ask him for a small favor: to hold the door, or

to pick up something you’ve dropped, or to take a picture of you

with your camera -- and you can always ask for advice. Don’t forget

to thank him afterwards.

When talking to the object of your interest, lean forward a little

will discourage them to approach you.

Now let’s talk about something interesting. It may sound weird,

but certain smells play a more important role in attracting people than

do sights. Human skin (as well as animal skin) emits biologically active

substances – pheromones -- which affect human behavior or physiology

even though we can’t smell them. The aim of sexual pheromones (aphrodisiacs)

is to attract the opposite sex. Pheromones affect our subconscious, and

we don't notice that we feel an instant attraction when first meeting

someone. Most sexual pheromones are produced in the groin area, the underarms,

and the nasolabial lines.

Sexual pheromones are mostly responsible for love at first sight

showers.

The activity of pheromones depends on the person’s emotional state

and age. As we age, pheromone activity decreases. Some western manufacturers

produce women’s and men’s fragrances with pheromones. There’s still an option: you

can use essential oils, as some of them are very powerful aphrodisiacs.