Percentages Of Love

decide to stay with you. And being inspired by your example he will call

you regularly, even if he is very busy.

Situation. Just the same.

What do you think. Just the same.

In reality. He has a lot of complexes and

following the principle, "The less we love, the more we're loved,"

he knowingly keeps silent and waits for you to make the first move.

What do you do? You, too, keep silent and

wait.

The result. In a week, both of you are suffering

from complexes and will decide that you were really forgotten -–

and never will dare call again. Never. But if one dares, he will certainly

be met with well-rehearsed "non-recognition."

What should you do if you love this person? Call

him or write to him whenever you want to.

The result. You will save him from at least

one complex. And it will be fixed in his brain that you consider him to

be important.

Situation. He didn't remember you on Valentine's

Day.

What do you think? "He is afraid of me

running after him. What we had between us is not important for him. He

won't stay in our relationship and it will be better if I leave first."

In reality. Admit that Valentine's Day is

not a holiday for adults and it is not registered in the calendar. Businessmen

don't usually notice it. So your boyfriend is either very practical and

busy or he considers you to be like that. Men are afraid to look funny

and don't want to risk ruining the image of being "severe and strong"

with a silly pink heart or a stuffed bear with the words "I love

you" on its stomach.

What do you do? You disappear. You don't answer

his calls and e-mails. If you meet him unexpectedly, you greet him coldly.

The result. You fall apart.

What do you need to do if you love the person?

Nothing. There’s no such holiday in the calendar. But you also can

present him with a stuffed bear with words on its stomach because you

are not afraid to ruin the image of being "busy but romantic."

The result. He won't forget to remember you

on the 8th of March.

Situation. He didn't answer three SMS.

What do you think? "I occupy the last

place in his life".

In reality. He forgot his cell phone in his

car. Or he's just too lazy to write (that's a man’s nature). He

was going to call you in the evening to answer all your questions at once.

Or he may check on you -- how much do you need him?

What do you do? You don't answer his SMS.

And if he calls, you angrily say that you are busy.

The result. It’s a vicious circle. He

will take revenge in the same way and you will always be too "busy"

for each other, and not enjoying each other.

What should you do if you love the person?

Call him! But what if something has happened? "No? Thank God! I wa

so nervous, when you didn't answer..."

The result. You will know that everything

is all right with him. And he will know that you care for him. This knowledge

usualy helps men to overcome indiffidence and finally make a declaration

of their feelings.

The way to happiness

Why do people fall apart? You can remember and imagine a lot of objective

reasons and small causes. But most often people fall apart because both

of them are afraid of being left.

Being left is not pleasant and not cool. But to leave someone is just

the opposite. This is evidence of your total irresistibility. The more

people you have left, the higher the rate, and the less chance you've

got of having quiet (or, vice versa, wild and loud – whichever you

prefer) happiness some day.

Being left is not nice and not cool. But to leave someone is

just the opposite.

Just imagine that you are separated from this happiness by... no, not

an abyss! Not even a ditch. But just a small, gently sloping depression

in the ground. There is a log thrown over it. Simply walk along the log

to the other side and that's all -- be happy here!

Were you able to imagine it? Excellent! Now stand on the log –

and walk ahead! For balance you can use "the gift of God." Your

love. 50% in your left hand (yours) and 50% in your right hand (his).

With such a balance it is easy to walk not only on a log, but on a rope.

But sometimes you feel that the balance is not equal anymore. In your

left hand you've got 65%, and in your right, only 35%. You're losing your