Percentages Of Love

What do you do? You, too, keep silent and wait.

The result. In a week, both of you are suffering from complexes and will decide that you were really forgotten -– and never will dare call again. Never. But if one dares, he will certainly be met with well-rehearsed "non-recognition."

What should you do if you love this person? Call him or write to him whenever you want to.

The result. You will save him from at least one complex. And it will be fixed in his brain that you consider him to be important.

Situation. He didn't remember you on Valentine's Day.

What do you think? "He is afraid of me running after him. What we had between us is not important for him. He won't stay in our relationship and it will be better if I leave first."

In reality. Admit that Valentine's Day is not a holiday for adults and it is not registered in the calendar. Businessmen don't usually notice it. So your boyfriend is either very practical and busy or he considers you to be like that. Men are afraid to look funny and don't want to risk ruining the image of being "severe and strong" with a silly pink heart or a stuffed bear with the words "I love you" on its stomach.

What do you do? You disappear. You don't answer his calls and e-mails. If you meet him unexpectedly, you greet him coldly.

The result. You fall apart.

What do you need to do if you love the person? Nothing. There’s no such holiday in the calendar. But you also can present him with a stuffed bear with words on its stomach because you are not afraid to ruin the image of being "busy but romantic."

The result. He won't forget to remember you on the 8th of March.

Situation. He didn't answer three SMS.

What do you think? "I occupy the last place in his life".

In reality. He forgot his cell phone in his car. Or he's just too lazy to write (that's a man’s nature). He was going to call you in the evening to answer all your questions at once. Or he may check on you -- how much do you need him?

What do you do? You don't answer his SMS. And if he calls, you angrily say that you are busy.

The result. It’s a vicious circle. He will take revenge in the same way and you will always be too "busy" for each other, and not enjoying each other.

What should you do if you love the person? Call him! But what if something has happened? "No? Thank God! I wa so nervous, when you didn't answer..."

The result. You will know that everything is all right with him. And he will know that you care for him. This knowledge usualy helps men to overcome indiffidence and finally make a declaration of their feelings.

The way to happiness

Why do people fall apart? You can remember and imagine a lot of objective reasons and small causes. But most often people fall apart because both of them are afraid of being left.

Being left is not pleasant and not cool. But to leave someone is just the opposite. This is evidence of your total irresistibility. The more people you have left, the higher the rate, and the less chance you've got of having quiet (or, vice versa, wild and loud – whichever you prefer) happiness some day.

Being left is not nice and not cool. But to leave someone is just the opposite.

Just imagine that you are separated from this happiness by... no, not an abyss! Not even a ditch. But just a small, gently sloping depression in the ground. There is a log thrown over it. Simply walk along the log to the other side and that's all -- be happy here!

Were you able to imagine it? Excellent! Now stand on the log – and walk ahead! For balance you can use "the gift of God." Your love. 50% in your left hand (yours) and 50% in your right hand (his). With such a balance it is easy to walk not only on a log, but on a rope.

But sometimes you feel that the balance is not equal anymore. In your left hand you've got 65%, and in your right, only 35%. You're losing your balance.

No, it is not dangerous to fall on the ground. I'm telling you: the depression in the ground is gently sloping and not deep. It’s simply uncomfortable. And everyone will laugh.

What will the common girl do? She will jump from the log! She will land smartly, as if it’s natural. And she will hold her head up along the depression in the ground.

And what will the girl who is not afraid of love do? She will stand