You always get dumped by guys? You think that pain and disappointment

are obligatory parts of every relationship? Well, everybody has his

own sad story. Make these fears and stereotypes your friends. Let your

past teach you a lesson. Describe (write down) the situations when you

felt angry, unsatisfied, or hurt. Analyze your recent relationships.

If you notice that they have something in common, like jealousy, misunderstanding,

or distrust, try to understand why and think about what you can do to

avoid these situations. Are you ready to make changes so that you’ll

never be in these shoes again? If this step seems too difficult, it

may make sense to consult with a psychologist.

We must love ourselves! Even if we need to repeat one thousand times

“I’m the most beautiful woman in the world” on our

way to work. Look at yourself as if you were a loving man. You don’t

like a dimple in your chin – fall in love with it. Just imagine

that all your charm is concentrated in this small part of your face.

Remember how Madonna made a slit between her teeth seem sexy. Or Cindy

Crawford with her mole – a feature which seemed worse than the

plague in the beginning of her career. Get yourself a mirror and look

at every line, every mole and every dimple. Don’t be shy to look

lovingly at yourself – that’s the way you want men to look

at you!

When you’re happy and open to new impressions, everybody around

you notices this. Do something you haven’t done for ages –

buy some plants to decorate your window sill or drive to the country

to take pictures of the setting sun. Do something you’ve dreamt

about – buy a camera and be a reporter, start taking belly-dance

or flamenco classes. You can go further and try something extreme –

hang-gliding or kayaking. Adrenalin will wake up your energy –

that’s what attracts others to you.

You will never find The Man staying at home. Accept every invitation

– from block parties to spending weekends with cousins. Use every

chance for communication and one day you’ll meet Him. Do not stay

in the shade, but be natural – just be yourself and spend time

with people you like.

When we grew up, we totally forgot that happiness is random. Really,

the most fantastic, crazy, astonishing things can happen to us at any

time in any place! Tomorrow, next weekend, in 2 months – you never

know. Remember this!

You think you’ve had enough ‘negative’ experience?

Even if so, you can’t always see your mistakes clearly through

the veil of pain and resentment. It’s easier to learn by listening

to stories of your friends, reading memoirs of famous women and stars’

life-stories. Analyze the stories of success and failure. Write down

your own opinion: what is the main mistake of the character, what is

she right about? Imagine yourself in her shoes – do you think

the end would be different? What is most important - you must be sincere

when answering these questions. Then you may successfully avoid some

mistakes in reality.

Do not surround yourself with only female stuff – hobbies, activities.

To be interesting to men, you must know something besides fashion trends

or cosmetology. Play on his field. Find out who’s the most promising

soccer-player of the season or what’s new in the car industry.

Watch sports news, go to a gym or attend some computer courses. You

don’t have to become a pro in every sphere – even a couple

of phrases in men’s language will attract his attention. And additionally,