Advice on Internet Dating
if you took care of it. But if not taken
care of, it could get slightly scratched, split, or even get broken.
Choose your words carefully, even in the fever of a quarrel.
The past is the past, and let it be so. If you live in past events,
you will never find the solutions for the future. By living in the past,
you also risk making your loved one feel less loved and respected. Everyone
makes mistakes. Give him a chance to improve, and support him when he
happens to be right.
If you can make a compromise you’ll feel better in future discussions.
If you don’t like anything – come to an agreement to find
the golden mean. The same is true about the opposite case – be
able to accept an alternative in something that he doesn’t like.
about, you might not come to an agreement.
Usually a quarrel begins because somebody can’t agree with you
in something. You think that your opponent just doesn’t know what
he’s talking about, so you start explaining everything to him.
The longer your opponent disagrees with you the more disappointed you
feel. But if you simply realize that it would be better to let everyone
have his own opinion, you’d show your partner that you respect
not only his opinion, but him as well. Who knows, maybe someday he will
change his opinion.
It’s easy enough to disappear and to avoid your partner in order
to avoid a discussion. Promise sufficient respect to each other to settle
the problem – try to meet half-way.
a quarrel.
It doesn’t mean you should turn everything inside- out or come
to a compromise for the sake of compromising. Just keep in mind that
the man with whom you are quarrelling is your best friend, your lover,
and a part of your soul. If you both kept that in mind in the first
place, it would save the thing that always suffers from wicked words
– your heart!
And one last ending thought. Always let him know if something bothers
you. Many people prefer to keep silent, thinking that something doesn’t
deserve to be discussed. But later, such little offences are accumulated
and can become the last drop that destroys everything. He can even be
unaware that something brings disappointment to you until it takes the
form of something bigger. The last advice -- get a journal, and each time
you don’t agree with something, write down everything including
such facts as: where, when, what you feel, and so on. If you can cope
with a situation all by yourself – do it. If you need help from
your better half – find the time to talk to him. Getting such a
journal can help you could understand the feelings that spring up through
certain incidents, and this will help you to discuss everything calmly.
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