New Baby, New Parents, New Family: A Few Words of Advice

world. He learns to control and move his body. By one or two months the

baby will recognize relatives, but won’t react to strangers. By

three months, he begins to look at everything around him with curiosity.

He tries to grasp or touch close objects, because his hands, clenched

in fists before, are now unclenched. At first, the baby hesitates to make

these movements, and the child doesn’t accomplish his goal, but

with your help he will do it and will smile with you.

It should be noted that every baby has a unique personality, and he

wants to be treated well and with attention. Therefore, you should avoid

any act of violence or anger. A baby might develop quickly or slowly,

depending on several factors, including: heredity, birth process and the

nature of the baby. That’s why you should remember: you are an excellent

parent, and there’s nothing wrong if your child develops a little

slower than others (if it isn’t connected with a disease). He may

sit sooner than your neighbor’s baby, but perhaps his teeth come

in later. This isn’t important. Believe in yourselves and don’t

be afraid of problems! The main thing is to understand that mental development

depends mostly on surroundings and environment. Create a favorable atmosphere

in which kindness and mutual understanding dominate. This will help a

child to develop a pleasant personality. From the earliest moments of

your child’s life, take interest in him, exercise with him, help

him do things and take advantage of your time together. This will greatly

influence his development.