can a mother replace his father, partially at least?

It is very important for a son to know that he has a father, and that

his dad is a good man with many good qualities. You should always underline

that his father loves him, but he can’t live with him under certain

circumstances. In our childhood, we adopt behavior patterns from the

closest people. And your son, watching the surrounding atmosphere, learns

how to behave with his friends, children and relatives. In this concern,

the absence of a father influences badly the “script” of

the future life - in fact, a boy doesn’t know what a husband should

do in a family, how one must treat women in general, and a wife particularly.

Knowing about this problem, many women try to behave as both a mother

and a father, by which they finally confuse the son. In this situation,

you must stay a mother, and to develop in your son a pattern of man’s

behavior, encourage his communication with his father – forget

about your offenses with your ex-husband and think only of your son’s

happiness. It is also useful to keep in touch with family couples, so

your child can see how a husband and wife behave.

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It is proven by experiments that the brain of even newborn boys and

girls function differently. By school age, there are more differences

than similarities as specialists claim. And though boys and girls pass

the same periods of growing up, they naturally have different attitudes

to school. If girls are more stable and well adjusted to the offered

conditions, on average they do better in subjects. Boys are more vulnerable.

They feel it difficult to follow the established set of rules and behavior

patterns. It is generally recognized that boys and girls have a range

of certain psychological differences. Most boys have more developed

visual, spatial and mathematical capacities, girls - verbal ones. Of

course, the perception of school subjects and school itself is generally

different as well. Boys, unlike girls, need to know the final aim of

what you explain to them. In other words, they want to know why they

need to know and master it. But girls, as a rule, are more diligent

and ready to do the work just because they “must” do it.

Boys are more rational and practical in their education energies, and

if there is no answer to the question “why,” they will spare

effort. Moreover, don’t forget that it is mostly women who work

at school now, and this also influences the result of education. There

is one point (and it contains a grain of truth), that it is men who

created pedagogical science and education content is male. Later men

left school and education organizations became female which resulted

in boys’ problems. But seriously, most foreign research workers

take it as an explanation of the fact that girls are more successful

at school than boys. Trivial as it may sound, schoolboys are not worse

than schoolgirls, they are just different, and one must never forget

about it!