What Sex Reveals About Your Partner

Sex happens, and sometimes it happens so suddenly that you end up not knowing your partner well. What if you do not really need to know him well? Let us find out.

What has happened. Hardly having reached a suitable place for decisive action (for example, the door of his apartment), he took you to the bedroom, not saying a word. You have hardly reached the bed.

Your impressions. What a temperament! It is obvious he wants me.

In fact. Sometimes it does happen this way – quickly, passionately, and to mutual satisfaction, but you should check if he can be gentle, tactful, and unhurried. If not, he is hopeless and nothing will help. If you like it, be with him, if not, leave him.

What has happened. He tried to do everything in classical style – dimmed lights, music, a glass of wine… He is romantic (or has read too many magazines).

Your impressions. Nothing special, but it is pleasant.

In fact. If there is only a glass of wine – no problem, but the need to have a lot of alcohol (or making you drunk) before sex, is the sign of diffidence or even alcoholism.

Possible variants. It seems that your visit has not changed his usual day regime much. He has boiled tea, turned the TV on. Do not think that he is indifferent to you; he just does not want to speed things up. Sex will certainly take place, but he does not want to take you to bed right away. By the way, psychologists say that the best emotional state on the first date is a light and relaxing one, making both of you feel comfortable.

What has happened. He has managed to undo your bra with his left hand really quickly – this is a real feat, and the moment he took your jeans off was not even noticed by you.

Your impressions. He is experienced.

In fact. Only constant practice, good coordination of movements, and tact will let one acquire skills in this hard business of undressing a woman. The exam will be passed with an excellent mark if he undresses himself without your help, not forgetting to take his socks off. (By the way, 43% of men feel that a partly dressed woman is more sexual than naked, and the most erotic women’s clothes are bras, stockings and high-heeled shoes.) The only problem with this guy is - if he managed to undress you so professionally, then… in a word, you can not be sure he will be faithful.

What has happened. Everything. The whole arsenal of preliminary caressing.

Your impressions. You have no words…

In fact. A prospective lover should devote at least ten minutes before sex to caressing, including cunnilingus, but if the process lasts too long… well, it is up to you to decide how you feel.

What has happened. What a bitter disappointment to spent ten minutes in the missionary position after such a promising seduction! It is boring and not pleasant, and too heavy at that.

Your impressions. He is selfish, and he is a good-for-nothing lover. He has no imagination!

In fact. Statistics state that this is the most common position for men to have sex (though they prefer doggy-style), especially if the partner is new. Sexologists think that maximal emotional contact is achieved in this position. He does not know you, your wishes, preferences, and your degree of sexual freedom yet. By the way, men’s magazines advise not to experiment too much the first time, and to have sex only in two or three positions (including missionary and woman on top).

Possible variants.

• You began with doggy-style. If it was his initiative then he is likely to be a real macho man. Does he look like one? Then he is just a coward, subconsciously afraid of intimate communication. “Back view” scares him less than a prospective to look into the woman’s eyes.
• “A cat on the tree”: he is standing, you are hanging on him, hugging his waist with your legs. This is possible only with a strong, self-assured man, as well as with a self-confident and conceited one.
• “Kalatch”. He is pressing himself to your back, gently, repeating your body curves. He is calm, home-like, cozy… He is an ideal husband, though a bit boring.
• “A wild snake on the lotus” – or something else suitable while speaking of charkas and Tantra. This variant is good only for those who know these things (Tantra and so on), or sometimes as something exotic.
• It is hard to remember all the positions you have tried. Inventiveness and variety are good in sex, but are rather suspicious for a debut. If he is so interested in acrobatics, then perhaps you do not interest
  
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