What Sex Reveals About Your Partner

him so much.

What has happened. He suggested you play the

role of a hospital nurse because it turns him on so much. You rejected

the idea.

Your impressions. Does my natural appearance not turn

him on?

In fact. There is nothing shameful in turning a fantasy

into reality, but it is not really suitable for the first date. By the

way, 51% of men confess to their wives that they think of other women

during sexual intercourse; 39% give exact names. It is better to play

a nurse…

What has happened. You could have never thought

that such a respectable gentleman knows so many obscene words!

Your impressions. I do not want to have anything in

common with this boor!

In fact. According to statistics, 58% of men say obscene

words during sex (and 74% of women). What you should call all these intimate

things is another question. Rudeness is unpleasant, lisping irritates,

it is boring to keep silent, and so, as a result, many people prefer to

mumble something inarticulate. Though a skilled lover realizes that tender

words are better than concentrated puffing, and compliments (to each part

of your body) are the highest class. Besides, the manner in which he talks

in bed, as well as the loudness of sounds produced, are not really connected

with his character and the strength of his passion.

Possible variants.

• Jokes and anecdotes told during sex are not the signs of a keen sense

  of humor, they are the signs of stupidity. A normal man knows that laughter

  is the worst sex enemy.

• You like declarations of love? Sure! But do not think they are so

  significant. He knows what a woman wants to hear and says it.

• You won’t be able to keep him from saying the following: “I

  think that was the third time you had an orgasm” or “You

  will feel good with me – ask anyone”, so it is better to

  leave him.

What has happened. The beginning was so nice,

but everything ended as a complete failure (his small friend fell down).

But your partner was not ashamed; he just smiled and resumed caressing

you rather skillfully. In half an hour, you both were ready to begin the

main process.

Your impressions. He is likely to become impotent pretty

soon, or something is wrong with me.

In fact. Approximately half of all men experience temporary

loss of erection with a new partner. It is normal – just the result

of nervousness or over excitation. The stronger the desire – the

greater the possibility of failure is. A diffident man may panic and the

prospect of psychogenic impotence will become real. If he has accused

you of everything, you should run away from him.

What has happened. There was the latest news

on TV, then his mother called, and afterwards he had to discuss some business

problems on his mobile phone. He did everything possible to interrupt

having sex with you.

Your impressions. The weather forecast for tomorrow

is really important. It is necessary to talk with the mother, More important

to talk with the business partner. Of course, you won’t be satisfied

having sex with him, but he cannot change.

In fact. Do you know why animals’ sexual act

is so short? Because animal males are so involved in the process that

they are completely defenseless and risk their life. What do you need

with a human male who is afraid of risking his business for you?

What has happened. Or has not happened. A woman’s

orgasm is a delicate thing, especially with a new partner. His questions

and captious clarifications have not helped.

Your impressions. He is a bore, completely deprived

of sensitivity, and he is unable to understand a woman’s soul. It

is better and easier to pretend you have had an orgasm than to feel as

if you are at the sexologist’s.

In fact. Very seldom can a man define the moment of

a woman’s orgasm. It is very important for him to define it –

to feel that he has satisfied you. That is the reason he asks. 24% of

men consider orgasm simulation a normal thing.

What has happened. It was like the first day

in the army. Anytime he opened his mouth you heard, “Lie!”,

“Sit still!” and “Turn round!” But more often,

he just turned you to any side he wished or bent your head down hard.