Woman Knows: Preferences in Bed: Men Tell the Truth

Preferences in Bed: Men Tell the Truth

“She’s good in bed if…” If what? What qualities should a good lover have? 50 men and 50 women were asked to rate the qualities using the following numbers:

4 – absolutely necessary

3 - very important

2 - important

1 – not bad

0 – doesn’t matter

-1 – too much

	Real rate of male preferences		Female rate of male preferences or how women see it
162	She has no complexes	1	She l-o-v-e-s sex	167
149	She l-o-v-e-s sex	2	She has no complexes	164
134	She has a beautiful face	3	She loves to perform oral sex	150
131	She has a beautiful figure	4	She likes to experiment	128
131	She likes to experiment	5	She needs sex when I need it	121
120	She loves to perform oral sex	6	She has smooth skin	120
117	She has smooth skin	7	She has a good figure	116
117	She needs sex when I need it	8	She loves to receive oral sex	110
108	She loves to receive oral sex	9	She likes unusual poses	109
80	She is aroused easily	10	She is aroused easily	108
74	She likes unusual poses	11	She likes sexy underwear	96
72	She has a big bust	12	She starts first	96
71	She likes to have sex with light on	13	She has a beautiful face	90
70	She starts first	14	She likes to have sex with light on	74
60	She talks/moans in bed	15	She likes strip-tease	69
59	She doesn’t fall asleep right after sex	16	She has a big bust	66
59	She likes sexy underwear	17	She likes sex-marathons	63
54	She comes quickly	18	She comes quickly	60
40	She has a small butt	19	She talks/moans in bed	54
38	She likes strip-tease	20	She has a big butt	50
37	She likes anal sex	21	She doesn’t fall asleep right after sex	45
26	She likes sex-marathons	22	She likes anal sex	29
25	She needs more sex than I do	23	She needs more sex than I do	23
13	She has a small bust	24	She has a small bust	10
9	She is shy in bed	25	She is shy in bed	10
8	She falls asleep right after sex	26	She needs less sex than I do	8
7	She needs time to get aroused	27	She needs time to get aroused	7
7	She has a big butt	28	She has a small butt	6
-21	She needs less sex than I do	29	She falls asleep right after sex	-14
-29	She never starts first	30	She never starts first	-34

Men about their main ‘likes’:

about having no complexes

“I think there is no place for complexes and other prejudices in bed! If my partner has complexes having sex, it means that she’s not sure of herself and doesn’t trust me – that’s why she can’t relax and enjoy the situation. It never helps the relationship, even if a girl is a beauty!” (Anthony, 23)

about love of sex

“You know when some women have sex as if they go to the dentist – yeah, it’s an unpleasant procedure, but she has to go through it. So they do it almost professionally, but without enthusiasm… Sometimes they even pretend! There’s nothing worse than a partner like this. I like women who love sex! Even if they love it more than I do.” (Sam, 25)

about a beautiful face

“I personally enjoy looking at my partner’s face while having sex. I like watching her change, get pink and full of desire… That’s a pleasure, especially when she is pretty.” (Matt, 34)

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