vulvar lips, clitoris and the region around it. By stimulating them

skillfully, the partner will give you more pleasure than during the

sexual intercourse.

your beloved or even think of him to make your breasts lifted and

enlarged a bit, as if giving you a signal of excitement. Caressing

the breasts not only turns a woman on, but also helps her genitals

to be ready for sex.

feel intense erotic sensations because of our brains. It gives rise

to strong feelings, which are the reaction to messages from the erogenous

zones.

The search for sensitive parts of your partner’s body is fascinating

and useful for mutual understanding. But you can do even more and begin

to create so-called “secondary zones.” They are of great

significance, because they are associated with sexual stimulation. Let’s

suppose your husband strokes your loins each time after you have an

orgasm. These strokes may cause particular associations in your mind,

and your loins will become your secondary erogenous zone; touching them

will turn you on immediately.

If you feel a little squeamish when your partner is stroking some parts

of your body, or if it causes some inner resistance, then erogenous

zone stimulation won’t give you any pleasure, but will only make

the process painful. If you caress you partner feeling only dislike

or disgust, this won’t do either. Only letting your partner caress

you, but remaining unemotional, is not good either.

zones increases as you become older. A man cannot get excited after

the ages of 35-40 as quickly as he could when he was 18. He needs different

kinds of stimulation to start feeling excited, including direct stimulation

of the genitals. His sexual life will be all right if his partner is

active and creative. But it is late to begin searching for erogenous

zones when a man is already 40. And a man himself will resist; earlier,

he was able to become excited so easily and now, all of a sudden, he

is treated (stroked) like a girl. Therefore, your man’s erogenous

zones should be found by you at the very beginning of your living together.

As for women, their sensitivity won’t be revealed without skilful

erogenous zone stimulation. If your partner is an expert lover, you

are lucky. If not, try to make him an expert, encouraging him tactfully

in the right direction.

be interrupted; otherwise you won’t excite your partner -- you

will put him to sleep.